Even Deleuze says that there is no subject, that the subject is only an effect generated as a transcendental desire, so that it is not the purpose of affect that is the human being, but the purpose of the human being is the becoming affect.
If the purpose of affect is the human being, then love is a tool, then when a love damages the subject and makes the human being feel "unhealthy" or "useless", then this love is something that will be denied and discarded, and this is the moral basis of self-care that is now taught in western therapy, that as joked in the drama Beaf, it doesn’t work on eastern minds. But if the purpose of the human being is love, or if the human being comes from the creation of love, then it is through the human being that love is realised, so that the human being and the human being will not be separate, and this kind of integration is not like the basis of Hegel's idea that we are all enveloped in an absolute spiritual structure, because it is born from the infinity of difference, which is active and powerful. 2023.11